Life Milestones Worth Celebrating That Don’t Come With a Hallmark Card

New job. Buying a house. Falling in love. Weddings. Babies…

All beautiful life milestones to celebrate, but what if those moments haven't happened for you yet? Or, what if those milestones aren't the target you're throwing your darts at? 

We're so conditioned to hyper-focus on the stereotypical norms that get so sticky in our brains, we start thinking those are the ultimate milestones to celebrate in life. But hear me when I say, it's a heaping pile of BS.

I love a reason to toast to an "I do," or a "Welcome to the world (insert baby name here)," but what about all of the moments happening outside of those conventional milestones that deserve just as much attention and reason to party? 

There's so much more to celebrate in life than the moments that already have a Hallmark card for the occasion. Instead of seeing life as a roadmap with only a few destinations that matter, think of these moments as little gold stars along the way, each one worthy of its own moment in the spotlight.

- Traveling on a group trip where you don't know a single person

- Your first solo trip

- Singing karaoke in front of a room full of people

- Paying off your student loans

- Making a new friend as an adult

- Facing your fear of heights in a hot-air-balloon ride

- Being fabulously single

- Quitting a job that made you miserable

- Pushing past the discomfort and taking yourself out for a solo dinner anyway

- Standing up on the surfboard for the first time

- Speaking up when you'd normally stay quiet

- Getting that promotion you worked your a$$ off for

- Starting over when you thought you were too old to start again

- Trying a completely new workout class that intimidates you

- Moving to a new city

- Getting up early for a sunrise hike you almost talked yourself out of

- Saying yes to the last-minute plan that became one of your favorite memories

- Ending a relationship you thought would last forever

- Your first time traveling to a continent you've never been to before

- Joining that social club you were hesitant to join

- Finally booking the trip instead of just talking about it

- Making the first move

- Coming home from a group trip with new friends and a new perspective on your life

- Hiking to a viewpoint that challenged you mentally and physically with every sweaty step

- Pivoting careers

- Getting on the dance floor when you normally wouldn't

- Saying "no" to something that just isn't serving you and putting yourself first

- Buying yourself a new car

- Learning a new language

- Signing your first lease

- Not knowing what's next and being excited to find out

- Building up a savings cushion that finally makes you feel secure

- Getting your passport stamped in a country you never thought you'd visit

- Skiing a run that once looked way too intimidating from the top

- Looking around and thinking, "Damn, I love this life I built."

And this list is only the tip of the iceberg.

A toast to new friends on the Amalfi Coast

Any occasion that makes you pause and give yourself a little gold star is worth reveling in. And if you're not, consider this my PSA. These don't have to be life-changing moments to count. Plenty of moments may seem small from the outside, but they're just as significant and worth raising a glass to.

So celebrate the promotion. The new friendship. Finally telling your crush you think they're cute. The trip you stopped talking about and actually booked. Send out the Partiful invite and normalize celebrating the things that make you feel inspired, proud, and alive, even if they don't come with a dedicated occasion card or registry yet.

There will always be those big milestones we're taught to look forward to, but there's a whole lot of life happening in between them. And creating more of those moments is what we're always chasing at SurfYogaBeer. The unexpected adventures, life-changing connections, and moments that don't usually get the attention they deserve. At the end of the day, you get to decide which moments deserve a gold star. And that's the kind of life we're here for.

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